One notable observation is that on many the sexual act is with assistants around them? In many we see a naturalness about sex in the open that is missing today.
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About Tantra - in it's erotic aspects:
First we should consider a question - what is SEXUAL ENERGY and ATTRACTION? I will give the answer according to my experience - both as a mediator and a married human being with children: First sexual experiences are perfectly NORMAL for younger people - and it is a key aspect of the survival of the species. When young - the beauty of the body is at it's peak and the attractions are real.
Having sexual relations and ultimately children and a family are what life is about. This is the real school of life - relations and passing thru the stages of young, middle age and old age. The man will love his children and wife, and his wife will experience childbirth - a miracle. The children and family will experience life together - like a little country of its own! Also people can be together just to share life joys and sorrows. A sexual connection can be great part of that sharing.
We just need to know that FREEDOM is the biggest value of humans and we should not try to imprison and restrict the other person. Make a house - not a jail. During the sexual climax the sexual energy connects with the universe for a brief moment and has such power that it can even attract a soul-mind from the higher planes back to Earth - a baby is born. It can be felt if you have the sensibility.
Sexual Energy is a special SUBTLE energy whose function is to feel the body as a LIVING energetic being and thus make it acceptable to the mind and person as a 'home' or dwelling. That is why this energy tends to fade with aging - the living energy is evolving to a deeper level. Now ATTRACTION between Humans is not just energy - it is an aspect that deep down we are all one ocean of Love and Consciousness - we are ONE being, split into many forms in time and space. This attraction depends on deep affinities of interests (thoughts and beliefs) and experiences between people.
Thus people from the same country have more affinity since they share a similar background. Couples with similar interests will support each other more. Now we look at why so many religions and people see SEX as bad? For religions that seek to lift the mind out of worldliness (restlessness and suffering) the practices or solitude, prayer or meditation are central. Or for schools that want students to focus. Thus person that wants solitude will not see sexual activities as helpful or necessary.
Also to have women become pregnant when not ready is never a good idea - since growing a child is a task of decades or even a lifetime. Thus is sex a restricted activity in many wealthy societies, in the others we then have overpopulation and extreme poverty.
Now many have had painful experiences in relationships due to immaturity, jealousy, death or illness, split families, opposing relatives, accidents or simply possessiveness. Thus they have a lasting impression of pain associated with sexuality. They need meditation and love to grow... Tantra then overcomes these obstacles to a free expression of sexuality with first a development of the mind and universal love - Patience and not having rigid expectations are crucial.
The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfillment https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Tantric-Sex-Unique-Fulfillment/dp/1903816378/ref
The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra https://www.amazon.com/Complete-Illustrated-Kama-Sutra/dp/0892811382/
ref By Osho - Sex Matters : From Sex to Superconsciousness https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/from-sex-to-superconsciousness_osho/662737/#isbn=0312316305&idiq=5006916 This will lead to many other sources in the Amazon for USA. Chart of Relation between Tantra - Yantra and Mantra - in Hinduism:
A Yantra source: In Tantra, one approach is for the couples to focus on this Yantra together before to establish a depper connection as well as concentration - below is a store for them, there are many sources:
https://traditionalartofnepal.com/shop/mandala/sri-yantra-mandala/ https://www.google.com/search?q=yantra Tantra sources from Amazon India: https://www.amazon.in/s?k=tantra
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